Even since I came back from US couple years ago, I realized almost half of my old friends are married, and for those who hadn't married; only 30% of them are currently dating; and the rest of them are still looking or enjoy of being single. Funny thing is from my married friends, 70% of them decided married because of pregnancy, which means they were carrying their big belly to step into church. And many of them were very young.
And for my unmarried friends, only have 10% of them are desiring to get married, according to them, they think married is another milestone to achieve from their life, for being settle down. it's a signature of being mature. But married doesn't mature, some of my friends are still acting like a child most of the time although they were married, for God's sake.
For those rest of the 90% of unmarried, majority said that they will get married eventually, perhaps another 3 years, 5 years or even 10 years, they plan to get married while they reach certain age. But there aren't many things we can plan well and accomplish them liteturally. According to Murphy's law:"Whatever could happen will happen... "you can't really plan to get married.
Recently, I watch a sitcom called How I Met You Mother, the leading person in that show named Ted Mosby, he is typical person who looking for the right partner and planning to get married; however, it's not easy to find the right person even in the big city like New york. certainly, it's just a friction show that mean to entertain the audiences. but you can't deny it's really happen in real life. For some people, who might think that Marriage is the tomb of love, like the legendary charecter in that show, Barney Stinson. Who will not give up the whole jungle because of one single tree.
Anyway, married or unmarried, who are enjoying or not enjoying their current life, this is their decision of their life, and they should bear resposibility of their each decision.
